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Communication. Body language

Communication. Body language
It’s said, “The more the merrier.” Actually, I’m not sure, that this saying is about body language. In my opinion, gestures should be used rather sparingly than excessively if you don’t want to be misinterpreted.
As for me, such nonverbal communication is an absorbing phenomenon. That’s why, I like to observe, how people display emotions with the help of gestures. Besides, I try not to make generalizations about somebody’s behaviour. Of course, you may say that it is easier said than done, but I tell the truth.  
By the way, my daily life helps me to be more observant, because I can notice the use of body language, even if I’m at university. For example: sometimes students bite fingernails, because they feel worried about results of tests or exams.

They may also have sweaty palms if they need to make a speech and feel nervous about it.  Alternatively, if a person is confident, he or she will maintain eye-contact with the audience. 

Nevertheless, I’ve also observed, that when we have a discussion in our subgroup and have to think carefully about difficult questions, boys are mainly scratching their heads, while girls are stroking their chins. 



We also lean towards each other, in order to explain something important. One more interesting observation is that raised clenched fists, or crossed fingers may imply support and a wish for success. 

And what about the folded arms? This common gesture may imply stubbornness, but not necessarily. It may also indicate that the person is feeling judgemental.
By and large, keep in mind that different combinations of gestures may have different meanings. So, make sure that you understand everything correctly, before jumping to conclusions. 

5 коментарів:

  1. It’s true, excessive gestures are never relevant. That’s why, we should be careful using them. As far as you know, body language displays different emotions. I try never jump to conclusions but it seems to me that you are a really observant person due to the fact that you made reasonable generalizations about various gestures you had observed in your life. Furthermore, I’m sure you didn’t misinterpret them but clearly stated what they really imply.

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  2. Body language helps us to make it clear for our interlocutors what our emotions are.There are tones of gestures which people use whether they are ecstatic or gutted. Mind you, one and the same gesture can imply absolutely different things and it's very easy to make wrong generalizations. Even so, I must admit that you really excels at observation of the students' body language as well as interpreting it.

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  3. I really like your post about body language! It's great that you try not to make generalizations about somebody’s behaviour because there are a lot of incomprehensible jestures which can be misinterpreted. It is important to bear in mind that the more the merrie is not a good idea because excessive jestures make the conversation unpleasant.

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  4. You are in the right way for understanding body language. You definetely display your mood with a different combinations of gestures. Even so, it will help you in futere not to jump to conclusions.

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  5. Your post about body language is rather infomative and interesting. The text is insufficient evidence. It shows us importance of usage tones, gestures etc.

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